Muscular Male
How am I supposed to get along with the 2 shirtless muscular males living in my house?
I can only take so much.
From your question, I can’t tell if you’re offended by their (supposed) lack of etiquette, or disturbed by sexual attraction you don’t want to follow thru on. Honestly, it SOUNDS more like the latter!
If it’s indeed a sex-tease thing, tell each guy, in a public place where you won’t be overheard, that he’s turning you on too much; you wouldn’t tease him, and now that he knows, you hope he won’t keep teasing you. Make sure he knows you’re serious; this may require explaining why you don’t want to be involved with him. If either guy doesn’t respond soberly to your request, it’s not SAFE to let him continue living in your house.
If it’s ONLY an etiquette issue: You say it’s your house; however, they’re living there, too. And guys being shirtless is not illegal, immoral, or fattening.
If you don’t mind being an unreasonable landlady, tell them you don’t like them going shirtless in your presence, and each needs to either stop or find another place to live. If you prefer to be gracious, let it slide for a while; either you’ll get used to it, or you’ll decide that you HAVE to be unreasonable.
